Very Merry Christmas

I had a very merry Christmas this year, if not illustrated well enough by taking jello shots with my 85 year old grandmother. I had a great holiday with my family...and a WHITE Christmas at that! Mom woke up the day after Christmas really sick though...she is still in bed today, so let's hope that clears up soon!

Hope Santa was good to you all!

Meg

Yet another...

..."Overheard" of the day.

P: "I hope you don't mind if I eat my lunch in here."
MJ: "No, that's fine. Catering should be here any minute. I wish they'd hurry up so I could stop worrying."
P: "Yeah, and there is a student or a homeless person here, too."

What?!?!?!?! A student or a homeless person....Are they that hard to distinguish?

Winter Wonderland

Well, the world outside is coated in snow, slush, and ice. It's beautiful to look at on the trees...walking and driving is not quite so pleasant (although I did enjoy the 2 extra hours of sleep due to the delay!). Perks of working in higher ed -- I still get snow delays.

I think I'm going to start a new little feature, just as the opportunity presents itself. I love when people say odd things or put their foot in their mouth....I'm not sure what to name this feature, though. Maybe I'll just call them "Overheard."

Overheard: "I'm so glad this job has afforded you the ability to buy a new car." One - Rude. Two - She would have bought it anyway. Three - She got paid more at her old job. Four - Rude.

Overheard: "Your computer must just be slow today because it's so cold outside!" One - It's probably the server. Two - It's not like the computer is outside?

Overheard (this isn't a direct quote because I was not at the table, but close enough): "How is everything with your tummy tuck going?"
(The question was directed to a lady who definitely had gastric bypass or another similar form of weightloss surgery several months ago.)

Simpy,
MJ

Inspiration

A few things that I've gotten inspiration from this week:

This quote that I came across reading another blog (I wish I had written it down or could give credit to someone.)

For the most part I have felt very in control of my own life the past few weeks. But this quote helps me justify that feeling, I guess. Not that I need justification!

This article about Tory Burch on Forbes.com. She was named #88 on Forbes' World's 100 Most Powerful Women list. Considering she started her brand just 6 years ago, I think that is absolutely amazing. She designs beautiful, classic pieces and built a business from the ground up in such a short amount of time. And on top of that, is still a wife and mother. I just thought it was interesting to read.

And these lovely ladies are always inspiring -- whether it be in life, love, or laughter:

I can't tell you how much we laughed that night (or what about), but I wish it happened more often.

What inspires you?

Simply,
MJ

Can you believe it?

It's been one year since I started this blog! Dec. 1, 2009 was my very first post. Crazy, huh?

So, happy 1 year blogging anniversary.

As a reward, I have officially ordered my black booties....we'll see how I feel about them once they arrive!!!

End of November...

....means it's almost Christmas. Which means I'm obsessing over things that I want to put on my wish list. I'm almost currently enamored with a few of the following:

1. This Thanksgiving prayer (which is appropriate any other time of year):

O Lord, we thank Thee for this food,
For every blessing, every good.
For earthly sustenance and love
Bestowed on us from heaven above.
Be present at our table, Lord.
Be here and everywhere adored.
Thy children bless and grant that we
May feast in paradise with Thee.

2. Homemade treats -- think buckeyes, bourbon balls, oreo truffles, chocolate covered pretzels and homemade chocolate turtles. I may have to incorporate these into my Secret Santa gifts at work!

3. Kentucky basketball. Enough said.

4. EmersonMade. They have darling flower pins, clutches, etc. on their website. I say "darling," because I cannot think of another word to describe them. Take the clutch below for example. Dainty, darling, fun.

Image from here.

I think a shift dress with a brown leather belt accented with one of those flowers or clutches would be cute and classy. The ring pillows are also really sweet. A little expensive, but precious!

5. Black ankle booties. I will own some by the end of winter (hopefully). Any advice on picking a good pair? Taller? Shorter? Leather? Suede? I want to be able to wear them with dress pants if its cold or with tights and a dress. Just not sure the most 'fashionable' yet practical direction to go.

What are you all obsessing over?

Simply,
MJ

Where Have I Been?

I don't know where time goes anymore! I can't believe it is NOVEMBER. Yikes. I'll do a quick life update here if I can.

This happened to my best friend from back home:

She tried to call and text me the day of Homecoming, when I was of course working (trying to get the 82-hour work week over with!). I threatened her within an inch of a life if she was playing a trick on me. But she was very serious -- I cried (multiple times), but they were happy tears! Her fiance is a great guy, and she has said basically since the moment she met him that she knew she would marry him. I made a quick trip home the weekend after to see her and catch up. It was a great break for a few days.

Friday, my mom took a fall during her Zumba class and now looks like this:

Broken wrist (right hand), a day at the hospital getting it checked out, surgery, and a brace. I think she feels pretty helpless right now. Dad has been putting in her earrings for her and cooking dinner. I guess this means I'm in charge of Thanksgiving dinner now?!?!

Add in an early October wedding, Race for the Cure, football games with friends, plus work and my classes, and I have had my hands full! Lately I have really felt good about myself as a confident, independent person. I can do what I want, when I want. I have just been trying to dedicate more time to me (eating right, working out, spending time with family and friends) and to the people important to me. I put so much effort into work and my classes sometimes that I have just been exhausted and not putting enough energy into myself. I'm working on it...

Simply,

MJ

The Funny Thing Is...

I really am blessed to have a job that I love. One of my favorite things is when I get to travel to events. Tonight I went to Frankfort for their annual club meeting. The funny thing is, I drive into these meetings and towns sometimes thinking, "Where the heck am I, why is there nothing here, this is so po-dunk." I pull up to these hole-in-the-wall local dives (I only had to turn around once to find this one) named things like "The Office Pub and Grill" that are hardly marked. I walk in and heads turn and look at me like I obviously don't belong there...maybe it's the lost look on my face, the fact I'm the only person under the age of 45, or the box of junk that I am carrying. I quickly judge the pink laminate countertops in the bathroom, the outdated furnishings, and the over the top UK memorabilia all over the walls. Dinner was served on mint green plastic (or acrylic?) divided plates. I didn't know they still made that color in anything kitchen related.

But then a funny thing happens. The owners don't hesitate to put on an apron and set out the food. They are more than accommodating when you need to rearrange. You are served a perfect glass of sweet tea. Someone always says a blessing before everyone eats. And you get REAL mashed potatoes with REAL butter. Home cookin' even when you aren't home (the liver and onions were highly recommended -- I declined and went for chicken). If you are a visitor, your money is no good -- someone always picks up your tab. And offers you seconds on dessert. You learn about people and their families -- how their son is skipping his boy scout meeting to be there tonight and their 5th grade daughter is playing on the 7th grade basketball team. You hear stories about how campus used to be wet, with kegs in the dorms and Sigma Nu Beer Bash, when they went through 120 kegs in 2 hours. How the front half of Two Keys used to be a drug store, and there was no patio. As one alum said, "It could just be the three of us standing here and it would have been crowded." (He was only 18 when he started going to Two Keys...some things never change.) You hear from someone who was actually at the 1957 UK vs. Temple game and witnessed "The Shot" by Vernon Hatton. They always ask where you are from and what your folks do.

The funny thing is, by the time it's over and I leave to go home, I have to pull myself away. It may seem so backwards at first, but sometimes I think they are really on to something. It's a slower pace with southern hospitality. I immediately feel like a friend and neighbor. It's times like this that I really am thankful for my job and feel so blessed that I get to do what I do. I really am lucky, and am especially reminded of that on nights like tonight.

I hope you each feel just as blessed :)

Simply,
MJ

These Hips Don't Lie

So, I've developed a real issue. Yesterday I was scrounging for one of my favorite pairs of jeans to wear while volunteering with my students. For some reason, I couldn't find them (later this problem was resolved...I just overlooked them). In my haste to get to work, I grabbed another old favorite pair and slipped them on really quick. They had a good flair to wear with tennis shoes, still look good from the back, and are nice and worn in Paper Denim & Cloth jeans that I've had since high school. I got them up over my thighs, over my butt, around my hips....and to my horror, I can't button them. I can't use PMS bloating as an excuse this week either. I ripped them off, threw them to the floor of my closet, and quickly found the pair I had originally been looking for before running out the door. It nagged me a bit all day, but I figure maybe I just haven't worn them since last washing them. Maybe I dried them. Maybe I didn't try hard enough. Maybe I ate too much salt the day before. Because I am TOTALLY still the same size...I should STILL be able to wear my high school jeans (at least this is what I tell myself).

Fast forward to this morning. I decided to spice it up this Friday with some heels and my high-waisted, wide-legged dress pants. I was feeling good about myself and even got a few compliments on my pants this morning. (I don't wear them too often and definitely not since last winter.) Around 9:00 a.m. I felt something. As if Thursday wasn't horrific enough, the top eyehook on my pants had flown off! Not just come undone...I mean the hook itself was no longer attached to my pants, and they were hanging on by the two remaining eyehooks. And it didn't just fall off like it had been dangling by a thread for a while. It felt pretty secure this morning. I mean the hook shot at least 4 feet away, a la Subway commercial:

These hips don't lie. Someone needs to be hitting the gym ASAP for some trimming and toning. Maybe I'll put this on my workout playlist for next week:

Simply,

MJ

Free Enes

(Image Courtesy of KSR)
(Anyone recognize any of these ladies?)

There was a work event back home last Thursday night, so naturally my boss let me work it and spend some time at home -- a much needed break! It was great to have a three day weekend with time spent at home, visiting with the parents, and wedding festivities. But there is just one recap from the weekend I want to emphasize. Friday night's dinner conversation with my parents. (Disclaimer: If you are offended by "get your head out of the gutter" humor, you may want to discontinue reading at this point.)

Time: 7:30 p.m. CT. We had just say down to pot roast, squash, and mashed potatoes - good home cookin'.

Dad (to me): So you know that Turkish kid on the basketball team -- how do you pronounce his name?
MJ: I usually say Enes (ee-nis), but I'm not sure.
Dad: That's how I said it too, but I was watching the news and this announcer said Enes (En-es). It sounded almost like initials, N.S.
Mom: Or Enes (ee-nis) like P****! (I'll let you all fill that in. You can figure it out.)
Dad (to Mom): That's all you think about isn't it?!?
Mom: Only yours, dear, only yours.
MJ: (pushing away from the table in disgust) Oooohhh...I'm trying to eat dinner here!
Mom: Well, I had to have some sort of retort to that!
Dad: Well it didn't bother me at all, just her! (Pointing at me) (Pause) See, what it is, is that your mom heard how tall he was and wanted to know if he was.... (makes a hand motion)
Mom: ...proportional?

And this, my friends, is why I am so screwed up :)

Simply,
MJ

Just a Dream...

So I am totally feeling this song right now:

Nelly - Just a Dream

Maybe it's because I've always been a Nelly fan. (You're missing out if you have never heard my version of Hot in Herre.) I think it's because he is from St. Louis, and that is kind of where my roots are with my dad's side of the family. Anyway...definitely am feeling this one :)

I have a day or so at home this weekend, then a wedding in Paducah! Kendall and I went to get a gift tonight, ended up dropping a few $$$ at the MAC counter, then a few more $$$ at Sephora. Luckily tomorrow is pay day. I told her I better look freakin' gorgeous tomorrow. I picked up some fluid eyeliner, lash primer, new mascara...my eyelashes seriously look LONG. And I got some lip tint and gloss. I'm still debating on switching to Bare Minerals for my foundation -- thoughts from any of you on that?

Hope you all are living the dream this week :)

Simply,

MJ

I Spoke to Soon

So when I said, "I woke up with a sore throat, so I hope I'm not coming down with something," in my last post...well....I jinxed myself. Kept getting gradually worse every day, with lots of sinus pressure and nasal congestion, which eventually settled into my chest with a lovely cough. I caved and went to the doctor yesterday, so after 2 days on a Z Pack the outlook for the rest of the week is looking much better. Hopefully I can branch out of the chicken noodle soup diet, too.

I really do need to start taking better care of myself. I signed up for Race for the Cure on Oct. 16, so hopefully that will motivate me to get a little exercise in the next 3 weeks. Anyone have any tips for balancing healthy lifestyle with crazy work schedules? I need a little sanity!

Life Update

Hello again, friends! I'm going to try to be better about blogging in the near future, but in the meantime, here is my life update:

I worked about 58.5 hours last week (yes, including a couple hours on Labor Day). I had a lot of dinners at the office, and my fridge had a pitiful half a green pepper, less than 1/4 bottle of wine, and some apples. As a result, my Mint.com account is telling me that I've exceeded my budget for fast food. No kidding, Sherlock. I've been doing better this week so far -- steak and vegetables for dinner, scrambled eggs, turkey sandwiches for lunch -- so hopefully I'm getting back on track! (I woke up with a sore throat yesterday, though, so let's hope I'm not coming down with something.)

I'm happy to say that our conference and board meeting were a success -- especially our Friday night banquet. We had an AWESOME band out of Nashville. (If you know me, you know I'm a sucker for a good band and live music.) They're called 'Burning Las Vegas' and you can check out some videos of them here. If anyone gets the hankering to head down to B.B. King's in Nashville on a Wednesday night, let me know and I'm in.

In the midst of my crazy work hours, I had some conversations along the lines of:
MJ: Is it just me or do these folders smell bad?
E: Yes! I was smelling that! They smell like...
MJ: Toejam. (Uh, yeah. Where did I come up with that?!?!)

G: That's really bothering you, isn't it?
MJ: Yeah, it's just me being anive retental. (Or maybe anal retentive? Maybe?)

C: Remember when McDonald's didn't take debit cards?
MJ: No.

How do you like them apples? (Speaking of apples...I hit up the orchard last weekend with my family and have pics -- with the intent of blogging about them -- so hopefully I can get those up!)

Hope you're all doing well!

Simply,
MJ

Scene from the Weekend

I haven't had much time to post lately (out celebrating my roommate's birthday last night and worked til 10 tonight)! But I wanted to post a scene from last weekend. Mostly because I'm totally in love with the new dress I got! It was one of those occasions where I spent the whole afternoon searching, and as I was leaving the mall I looked through the rack of sale dresses at Macy's one more time. Low and behold, this guy magically appeared! Originally $98, I got a pretty sweet deal...I think it was like 40% off, then maybe 10% more with Macy's card, then corporate was taking like 20% off your Macy's bill, so I ended up spending right around $40 for it!!! Granted, I literally had like 40 minutes to shower, shave, fix my hair, apply make up, get dressed and accessorize because of my mall detour. And for those of you who know my routine, a 30 minute shower and shave alone is a feat. But I pulled it off, believe it or not! The dress was slightly big, but I "MacGyvered" the straps a bit and made it work.

Anyway, this pic was from dinner Saturday for Lindsey's birthday (a friend of my roommate -- the girl next to me). We ended up having all these August birthday's at the table, so don't you know we had a round of somberos and tequila shots!

So how late into the season is too late to wear this dress again?

Simply,

MJ

Wondering Where I Have Been?

Uuuhh...so it has been almost a month since my last post. I knew I wasn't very good at this blogging game, but seriously -- I need to kick it up a notch. So with my deepest apologies, I'll give you my updates:

1. That sweet Kate Spade Posy Vase? Epic fail...apparently there was a "problem" with my order and it "could not be filled" or something. Bummer. But they did give me a $20 credit, so I'll keep my eyes peeled for my next sweet deal.

2. I did get a new phone. Samsung Solstice. But no worries...same phone number. (errr...or maybe I shouldn't say that, so when people say "Why has MJ been MIA?" you will respond "Oh it must be because she got a new phone.")

3. The sunglasses? Yeah, I totally got some new Ray Bans. And I love them. Some people hate to spend $$$ on expensive sunglasses, but in my experience I usually take care of them and wear them for years. I mean, let's be honest. You wear them. On. Your. Face. -- like direct center of focus for all people...except creepy men.

4. I had a WONDERFUL birthday filled with lots of sweets and sweet friends! I attended a beautiful wedding. Had a rockin' time at a hole-in-the-wall Owensboro bar. And I saw Gary Allan at our hotel...I could have shared an elevator with him, but chicken over here took the stairs. Minus the hour long wait for a cab and Creepy Tim (who hasn't had a girlfriend for 15 years and is trying to learn to talk to women and doesn't drink and was beaten by his step-dad, etc etc and then offered us a ride home...) it was an overall fabulous weekend.

5. I have 667 unread items in my Google Reader....and thats after unsubscribing to a bunch of blogs last week. Because I haven't had time to read them.

6. I have been working mucho hours. Like I think I calculated 56 hours last week? And it's almost 7, and I'm still at the office (taking a mental break to blog) and I took a 15 minute lunch at my desk...so crank that up to 5 extra hours this week already and it's only Tuesday. I'm exhausted. But through it, I've realized that I LOVE my new job. Like seriously. I work with wonderful people. I get to interact with students every day. I get such a high level of satisfaction from what I do. I really am blessed to A. be employed and B. get to do something that I enjoy every day. On that same note, I would still really like a vacation day to clean, iron, grocery shop, regular shop, and do something fun and relaxing. I'm just saying. (Hopefully after K Week and getting my old position filled I'll return to semi-normal hours.) Someone asked me today what I like to do for fun and I went blank...so then they asked what the most exciting thing I did in the last week...scratch that, month....was and again, blank. I said, "I met Archie Manning! But it was at a work conference..." Apparently that doesn't count. Like really...my idea of fun now seems to equate to take-in Chinese and movies. Although I will be trying to factor in some more fun or working out or something...and blogging of course :)

That's all for now! Back to work so I can go home!
MJ

Need To Want Less

(This about sums it up. Someone should tape this to my forehead.)

So, I am guilty. I am in a buying mood lately, and today I caved and bought myself an "early birthday present." It's a Kate Spade "Camelia Avenue" Posy Vase....I saw one similar to these at Macy's (in clear glass) when I was hunting for a bridal shower gift and thought they were just adorable. (I believe Sarah and Southern Charm bought one for the bride-to-be!)

So when they popped up on the Rue La La boutique for $19.00 I just HAD to have it. I got the VERY LAST ONE! I think it will be perfect on the shelves above our credenza at the apartment or in my office. (You can click on the link above if you want to join Rue La La! It's where I also first saw my Invicta watch that the beau ended up getting me for Christmas.)

Last week I may or may not have ordered a new bathing suit -- but for $20.00 I couldn't resist. Just hope it fits. And yesterday Dad mentioned going to look at new phones this weekend! Yippee!

There are also a few pairs of Ray Bans that I have had my eyes on...I'm hoping maybe one comes my way for my birthday! In the meantime, I have been stalking them on eBay.

Found here.

Found here.

Welcome to the World!

Here is the newest addition to my extended family:

Introducing Daniel Jacob...

He is a precious little one, isn't he? He's my cousin's third son. He was actually born last week but I didn't have a picture until now!

I also loved this picture that my Aunt Joan (the proud grandma) took:

That's Danny's two big brothers and their Uncle Mike (my cousin). There is just something sweet about the balloon, the blue sky, and the St. Louis landmarks. Just had to share. Hope you all had a great start to the week!

Simply,
MJ

A little advice...

...on what NOT to do once you get engaged. An ex-boyfriend of mine (if you could call it that) from high school recently got engaged. We "dated" when I was a freshman...the sweet kind of romance where you talk on the phone for like an hour every night, hold hands as you walk in laps around the stands at the Friday night football games, and pass notes in the hallway between classes -- usually as I was on my way to and from Spanish class with Ms. Spiller. In fact, he asked me out in a note that was passed on my way to Spanish. (I probably still have almost every note in a box at home.) Those were two of the best months of my life (sigh) until I broke up with him because I heard he was flirting with Nora in gym class (the PMS probably didn't help). Sure enough to get back at me he starts dating her like 2 weeks later, and they ended up dating for like 2 years. I was heart broken (I thought) for like a month.

Anyway, he is now engaged to a girl he has been dating for like 5 years. (Guess I missed my chance...haha...). And recently he keeps posting lovey-dovey song lyrics as his Facebook status. Gag me with a spoon. Really dude. We know you are in love. Give it a break.

Some samples:
"I know a girl, she puts the color inside of my world..."

"She's my world..."

{Insert quote from fiance} "Congrats on the engagement to the most awesome girl to ever walk this earth!! Hahaha and to think, u made me this way :D"

"I'm living life right now, and it's what I'm going to do until it's over..."

"Simple little thing called Love..."

"A wonderful night on the town with my fiancé!!!"

{Insert quote from fiance} "My fiance!!!! OMGGGG I love u!!!"

And to think...I used to doodle his name all over my planner. With little hearts and our initials every where. And each "milestone" in our relationship marked on the pages. Like ALL over my planner. Well...at least until I started "dating" someone else. Ooohhh to be 14 again.

So just a little advice: When any of you get engaged, please, refrain from the sickening posts. I KNOW you will feel the need, but we will already know you are in love. And I'd prefer to not have to purchase the said spoon for gagging. Plus, you don't want to end up on some ex's blog post.

Simply,
MJ

The Summer Day

I'm taking a vacation day tomorrow, and with the holiday Monday that makes for a 4 day weekend. For no reason. I have absolutely no plans. And that's just the way I like it and want it. This poem kinda reminded me of why:

The Summer Day

By: Mary Oliver

Who made the world?
Who made the swan, and the black bear?
Who made the grasshopper?
This grasshopper, I mean-
the one who has flung herself out of the grass,
the one who is eating sugar out of my hand,
who is moving her jaws back and forth instead of up and down-
who is gazing around with her enormous and complicated eyes.
Now she lifts her pale forearms and thoroughly washes her face.
Now she snaps her wings open, and floats away.
I don't know exactly what a prayer is.
I do know how to pay attention, how to fall down
into the grass, how to kneel down in the grass,
how to be idle and blessed, how to stroll through the fields,
which is what I have been doing all day.
Tell me, what else should I have done?
Doesn't everything die at last, and too soon?
Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?

You might be able to find me by the pool sipping on a margarita...

Have a fabulous Independence Day! And God bless our troops who still fight for our rights to work, to live freely, and to pray.

Simply,
MJ

Marketing Genius

Check out this ad for Huggies limited edition denim diapers:

Whoever did this commercial deserves a raise. Seriously. Genius...and hilarious. One of the roomies and I sat with our jaws dropped and started laughing hysterically. If I had a kid (knock on wood I don't and would like to keep it that way for a LONG while) I would totally go out and buy these. I mean really..."I've got chic in my pants"? "I poo in blue"? "The coolest you'll ever look pooping your pants"? Really. They really said it. All while making a baby look like a fashionable stud.

Props to JWT, the company who created this one.

Signed, Sealed, Delivered...

...I'm official! Beginning next week I'll be a program coordinator -- same place, new title! I'm very excited, but a little nervous because of the high expectations in place for this new position. But I just wanted to share my news. Promotion = pay raise, but I'll be moving to the other end of the hall, which is a bit of a bummer because I enjoy being around my current coworkers who are closer to my age. Instead I'll be next to the boss man.

So I hope you will all support me and throw lots of good ideas my way for new initiatives that I can start.

GO CATS!!!!

Magazine Deal

So I know that I have a ridiculous amount of magazine subscriptions -- okay, not THAT ridiculous, but I do get InStyle, Cosmo, Health and Real Simple. But my subscription to Health ran out in May! Luckily, Amazon.com came through for me again...

Right now you can get a 12 month subscription to Health magazine for $5.00. (Yeah, you read that right.) So if anyone is interested, hop on over and get your order in before time runs out! You can find it here!

Does that sounds like a sales pitch or what? But seriously, I do really enjoy the articles, tips and recipes each month. Plus, it's a light and easy read for the pool or gym, without blaring headlines like "The Moves Your Man Wants" that make you feel super uncomfortable around that hot trainer or your mom's BFF who happened to grab the treadmill next to you. Not that I would know since I rarely go to the gym. But I would assume...

Anyway...just an FYI if anyone is a magazine junkie like me!

Wedding Weekend

I spent 3 days in Paducah, Kentucky this past weekend for the wedding of a good friend and sorority sister. The beau and I spent Saturday experiencing the town and had lunch at the fine establishment known as Whaler's Catch.

A fish po'boy sandwich filled me up quickly! Yum!

Afterwards we walked off the big meal down by the river and through downtown. I was enjoying the sight-seeing and wanted to go in the antique stores, but the beau wasn't quite so thrilled that there wasn't anything "from this decade." Still, the sun was shining and the sky was blue.

He was ignoring me in this picture. I think he was embarrassed that I looked like such a tourist, but at least I wasn't wearing cut off jorts and bandannas like the crew a few yards away from us.

Brooke's wedding on Saturday night was beautiful. She looked absolutely stunning, and I couldn't get over how much she seemed to look like a mature, young lady. She just exuded class. The wedding was a traditional Baptist ceremony. Everything was simple, traditional and classy. Nothing too over the top, but each detail thought out. I hope that one day I have as much luck and love (and luck in love!) that she did! She deserves all the best and has my wishes for all the blessings life and marriage can provide.

It was my pleasure to be part of her day, and I am so honored to call her a friend!

P.S. I have no idea what the heck was up with me being so shiny! Seriously. Argh.

It's the little things

The highlights of my day today:

1. A caramel brownie from our student worker. dee-lic-ious. It reminded me of a "turtle" because it was chocolate, nuts, and had a layer of caramel in the middle. So good. Must. Get. Recipe.

2. I would love to try to bake the peanut butter filled yellow cake with chocolate icing and the caprese skewers I saw on Big Girls, Small Kitchen. Yum.

3. Who knew you could register your Kroger cards online and download coupons straight to your card? How convenient - especially for a coupon clipper like me! You can even print a list of the coupons you have loaded as a pseudo shopping list. Just shop, swipe and save. Genius!

4. My fickle temperatured office (yes, I made that word up I think) has revealed a new secret to me. Normally it's like "Oh it's January? Better make it 90 degrees in here. April? We'll stick to a steady 63 degrees." So lately...after forcing me into pants and sweaters, along with keeping a blanket and heating pad handy at the office....it has decided to spike again. This week it was holding steady at around 79 degrees -- and did I mention we don't have a dehumidifier in the building? Then Willy, the maintenance guy, comes around today and lets me know that the changeover switch is broken for the main heating/cooling unit. So if I set my thermostat on about 85 or 90 it actually makes my fan unit blow COLD air.

A. I never knew that thermostat served a purpose except to tell me the temp in the office.

B. I didn't know that it controlled the temp of my fan unit. I thought the unit was broken so I never used it except for heat on the random occasions the heat was on and my office was cold.

So now I may have a decent feeling office (with the exception of the humidity) for at least the next few weeks. And oooh...the humidity...did I mention it makes the printer play fun games like "One for you, Two for me" with the letterhead? Oh the joys. All I have to say about that is THANK GOODNESS I don't have children yet -- my patience isn't up to par.

It's the little things like brownies, coupons and A/C that get me through the days :)

Simply,
MJ

Something in the Water

I love receiving random texts from one of my best friends (yet to be introduced to the blog...we'll call her K-Rae).

This is the one I got at 8:30 a.m. CT today:

K-Rae: There is something in the water back home that makes people either fertile or stupid. Good thing I stopped drinking the water a long time ago.

Random and hilarious. See why we're friends?

Hope something makes you laugh today!

Simply,
MJ

Closet Freak

No, not like that. Get your head out of the gutter. I mean that I really can be a freak about closets. I've never had a large walk-in, so I've become pretty good about working with the space I have (or so I like to think). Since the move I hadn't yet gotten my closet in order. Everything was just thrown in, and it was impossible to find anything that I needed. Polos? Nowhere to be found. Cream colored cardi? Missing. It's enough to drive anyone mad. So last night I had a little time to myself and decided to tackle the project.

Here is what I started with:
Everything was just thrown in during the moving process. If it was on a hanger, it went on the rack. If it wasn't in a drawer, it went in the closet. I couldn't find any of the clothes I was looking for! So after a little TLC and organization, here is what I ended up with:

Much better, right? And still a little extra room left over! I put similar shirts together on cascading hangers...crew neck tees, v-neck tees, cardigans, button ups, polos, etc. Pants went together, skirts went together, and dresses lined up based on sleeve length/style. Other shirts were just put in order by sleeve length and color. Sweatshirts and jeans got their own shelf on my wire rack, and I had enough extra pieces of the wire rack to put together another cube to help corral purses and keep them from losing their shape. A little OCD, but it makes things much easier to find!

Feels like I'm finally making this into a new home :)

Simply,
MJ

If I Had a Million Dollars...

...or even just $220 dollars to spare, I would buy this:

Image from Here

It's bright, feminine, floral, flatters the hips and enhances the chest with the ruffles...oh, and did I mention that I think it is B-E-A-utiful?

(While I put this on my "Want" list, can I also add the abs to go with it? Thanks.)

Simply,
MJ

Pardon My Absence...

Clutter and disorganization hinders my ability to be motivated and get anything done. So moving this week = absolutely zero productivity. Hence the lack of blog posts. Hopefully after this weekend I will have fun new pictures for you all :)

In the meantime, forgive me as I try to make sense of the mess of cardboard and empty shelves that surround me!

Simply,
MJ

Retail Therapy

It's raining. Again. I love when the 10 day forecast calls for rain everyday. {Not.} I'm beginning to feel like I live in Seattle. Last Sunday was rainy, and I was home alone, so of course decided that a little retail therapy was in order. {Like I needed to spend the money.} So a little recap:

- I bought 2 dresses from Macy's -- one for work, one for play. Justifiable (?) -- one was 65% off, the other was like 70% off.

- I bought new black work pants from the Loft -- they were on sale, too. (This one really is justifiable. My current black pants required that I wear heels, which I just can't do everyday. I need to invest in some of MIML's "training heels" for daily wear. Not to mention the pair of short black pants I had were linen and made not one, but TWO cycles in the dryer before I realized my mistake. The pants were quite literally 4 inches shorter than the lining. Ooops.)

- I bought a new short sleeve sweater from the Loft. Not only was it on the clearance rack, but I got like 4 compliments on it yesterday. Totally justifiable. (On that note...is XXSP a real size?!?!? Guess so, because I bought it.)

- I bought new jeans. Skinny jeans. They were on sale for $29.50 at the Loft (if that makes it justifiable) and I had been wanting straight leg jeans after seeing how adorable MIML's and KB's were. They didn't have a straight leg pair, but had a "modern slim" style. Close enough, right?

- Have yet to remove tags from said skinny jeans. They intimidate me. Although I really, really think I like them. I think. Maybe. I need a little reassurance.

Where are my stylish friends when I need them?

Simply,
MJ

More Milestones

Today is officially my one-year anniversary of being a full-time employee. Yikes! Only about 40+ years to go until I can retire. {When did we get so grown up and starting talking about retirement savings and Roth IRA's instead of fun, college stuff?} In order to make it through the next 40 years of work, I might have to try Jessica's tactic of a "Daily Affirmation":




It's also the one-year anniversary of the passing of my maternal grandfather. He is still loved and missed! Here is a picture of my mom and her sisters at Grandpa Joe's funeral last year:

(Too bad I didn't get my height gene from this side of the family.)

Can you all believe how quickly a year flies by?

Simply,
MJ

Things I Love About Home...

Just a few of the things I love about home....

1. These wonderful people are there (although they didn't want to have a picture taken):
2. Dad will still pay for things, like car repairs!

3. We always have breakfast on the weekends. As much as I LOVE to sleep in, I will always get up when I know breakfast is waiting.

4. You all know my theory on how every small town has it's own Mexican restaurant that is "the best Mexican ever." And the local pizza place. When I was home for the weekend we went out to our local Mexican restaurant that seriously has the most authentic, delicious food, amazing chips and salsa, and margaritas. Now this is what I call a margarita:

5. Mom always has real butter. I don't know why, but there is no spray butter, no margarine...just real butter. For some reason it almost seems like a luxury or treat.

6. There is a slower pace. Mom says when they first moved to my hometown she felt like she had stepped back in time because there were still 5 and dime stores. But I love how everything slows down and is more laidback when I go home.

7. Beautiful flowers like this on the table, from our own yard...and some for the road to make my home-away-from-home more cozy. This weekend was peonies:

8. Old friends, who are still good friends. You know the type -- you haven't seen each other or talked in a while, but you pick up right where you left off.

9. Shopping! It's fun to mix it up and go to different stores or go to yard sales and thrift shops and come back with things you wouldn't have found otherwise.

10. For some reason, Mom always feels the need to bake or cook when I come home. So I end up eating cookies, ice cream sandwiches, smoothies, frappes, or whatever the craving of the month is. And I usually get to take some of those with me too :)

11. The stars in the night sky are brighter and clearer. You don't appreciate that until you don't see it on a regular basis.

12. Being right next to the river. My hometown was cleverly coined as "The city on the river but never in it." This past weekend the river was at 41.7' and the flood level is 42' - you can tell the river is up, but still no reports of flood damage to homes and property! River cities seem to thrive around the river -- festivals, fairs, summer concert series, boating...and I love it!

13. Gas prices are cheaper!

14. The church I grew up in. It's a sense of community I haven't found since moving away.

15. Lots of good memories :)

I know this list could go on and on, but those are just a few of the things I thought about this weekend! Sometimes I forget how much these little things mean!

As We Go On...

Isn't it funny how quickly time flies? Tomorrow is the one year anniversary of this picture:

I can't believe that it has been a year since graduation. College was by far one the best chapters in my life. I know I'm in another exciting chapter, with much to learn and do, but I always get a little sad looking at the by-gones. KB and I were talking yesterday about how this is one of the best points we will be at and it's true -- we are making money, living independently, old enough to go out without breaking any laws, don't look like children anymore, but still not having our bodies affected by age yet, etc., but MAN, those were the days.

This year has taught me a lot and forced me to grow a lot. It's been a bit of a rollercoaster at times, from leaving work and immediately calling my parents crying to laughing and going to bachelorette parties and girls weekends. I do know this -- I'm so blessed to have such wonderful friends and a great support system. My friends and family are my rock and keep me sane!

“A good friend is a connection to life—a tie to the past,
a road to the future,
the key to sanity in a totally insane world.”
―Lois Wyse

And it's funny how you can't really plan...if you had asked me 2 years ago where I would be today, my answer would have been very different. Such is life I guess. God has his own plans that we can't know or understand -- we just have to trust in Him and have a little faith.

"Many are the plans in a man's heart,
but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails."

Proverbs 19:21

So happy graduation anniversary to you all (and happy graduation this year to Alana!). I love you each dearly.

Sorry for the sappy post! I just get sentimental at times!

Simply,
MJ

Welcome to the Family!

Some exciting news today! My cousin and his wife had their baby! Little baby Nicholas was born Tuesday night/Wednesday morning. Welcome to the world, Nick! You're awfully blessed to be born into such an awesome family.

{Health and Happy!}

{Charlie is a proud big brother! Actually, I don't think he has a clue what's going on.}

{Cousin Ed is a proud papa -- Round 2. And he does have a clue what's going on. Charlie, again, is like "What's that thing?"}

I can't wait to meet baby Nick -- sadly it probably won't be til like Thanksgiving or Christmas, but maybe I'll get lucky this time around and it will be sooner :)

On a semi-related note, if I had children, I would want to take on this project from bakerella.com. The'yre chocolate-peanut butter pudding cups. But be sure to scroll down far enough to see how they make the actually cups! (Hint: it involves balloons.) How fun would that be for a couple kids...and kids at heart?

New Resolutions

I know most people make their resolutions around New Year's -- work out more, eat healthier, etc. I tend to find that its springtime when I feel the need to get my act together. The weather is warmer, the sun is shining(...and I look like the next Twilight cast member), people start planning vacations, and I have to actually start thinking about getting back into an itsy, bitsy, tweeny weeny....BIKINI. Don't get me wrong, I love the pool, the sun, the lake, boating -- any summer activity -- but I dread the photographs. So here is one of my question: has anyone found never-fail tips for photographing well in bathing suits? I usually go with the "suck-the-tummy-in-turn-at-an-angle-hand-on-the-love-handle" method if I can. But I'm just curious. And while I'm late on this train, what are some things you all do to get ready for summer and bikini season?

As for me:
- I've been perusing health magazine websites -- Health, Shape, Prevention and Women's Health.
- I'm determined to use the gym once I get into my new apartment.
- I tossed all the change from my purse into my piggy bank. Saves money AND prevents me from getting Cheez Its out of the vending machine at work.
- I've tried to incorporate more vegetables, salads, etc. into my diet.
- I've also tried to drink more milk and eat more eggs.
- Sticking to my grocery list. I can plan out meals when I'm not starving, prevents impulse purchases, and saves a little money.
- Shop the perimeter of the store more (less processed foods are usually along the edges).
- Bought Kroger light ice cream to satisfy my insatiable sweet tooth. I also have some of the 150 calorie "Warm Delights" microwavable desserts.
- Eat fruit with lunch every day, and try to incorporate it as a side to other meals.

Of course, I still ate an entire frozen Totino's pizza for dinner...but I can splurge every once in a while, right? I did eat vegetables and eggs like EVERY DAY last week.

I know the big key is to WORK OUT. I'm working that out still. (Excuse the lame pun.) But how do you all get back to feeling good? I've just felt frumpy lately, so I'm trying to get out of this slump. Any tips to add?

Clocks

Does anyone else think that large collections of things are kinda creepy?

{collections by museo ettore guatelli from world of interiors may 2010. I found on the blog wit & delight.}

Seriously....creepy. I couldn't live there. The first time I met the boy's grandparents he left me in the basement for like 45 minutes with his grandad. I got the grand tour of his clock collection. Hundreds of antique clocks. Literally. Hundreds. He fixes them up and restores them and they all sit around and just tick, tock, tick tick, tock.....

If I were a Hollywood movie producer and was making a scary movie, it would include a room full of clocks. Seriously.

It's a good thing I'm not a mother....

...because I can't even give my blog any TLC. For some reason I feel like I've been super busy lately. I spent the weekend of the 17th in St. Louie for a bachelorette party -- Southern Charm was there too!

{Me, the Bride-to-Be, and Southern Charm}

We both love that city. It has so much culture and self-identity. I think it's the ultimate baseball town. Plus it always feels a little like home since my dad's family all lives there! The strangest part of the trip was driving right past my exit for home...if only we had a little more time!

Last weekend I was in Georgia for a 3 day weekend at the lake. It was gorgeous on Friday -- about 88 degrees, hardly a breeze, and no one else out on the water. We spent 4 hours just laughing and relaxing. Everyone even got in the water at some point! (Polar bear plunge, anyone? Brrr...) One of the guys was being an absolute riot, as you can see in the picture:

{MIML might recognize this as an old friend of hers!}

Overall, a successful weekend. We even took a few good pictures that are frame-worthy! Now if I could just get around to printing pictures for the new place.....

{My handsome date and I before dinner}

Speaking of the new place -- I STILL don't have a move in date yet. The building is supposed to be completed by May 20, and we need to be in by May 31. Knowing how I usually like to have a plan for things like this, it's causing me a little anxiety. But once we're in, I'll be happy to lounge by the pool and work on getting a little color. I know tanning = skin cancer and yada yada yada...but I practically GLOW I'm so transparent. Case in point:

{Milky is not an adjective I want used to describe me.}

And looping it all back around to the title about mothers -- what does everyone do for their mom's in celebration of Mother's Day? I'm clueless! I've debated taking a trip home that weekend, but I'm not sure what to get my momma!

Little Black Shirt

Oh little black shirt,
Oh little black shirt,
Where did you come from?
Where do you belong?
I went to do my laundry
And you just came along.
Preparing to dry load #2
And there's a little black shirt-
An extra-small from JCrew.

I laughed and asked KB, too,
But alas, she hasn't a clue!
To whom do you belong?

If none pipes up to claim you,
You don't have to be alone.
I'll just pack you in my boxes
and take you to my new home!

(Basically, if you don't understand my poetic skills here...I found an XS black JCrew tee...crew neck. It was in my laundry. I found it as I went to put my second load in the dryer, so it wasn't left in the washer or dryer. I have noooo clue how it got in my laundry. Any takers?)

Warning

Just a warning to my (five) dear readers. You probably won't hear from me for the next few days, because some of my besties will be in town! I'm so excited to see them!

We'll be going here:
And doing a little tailgating like this:
And it's going to be great fun! The weather forecast is sunny and high 60's. I haven't decided what to wear yet, but regardless...it's who you're with, not what you wear! I baked up a batch of lemon drop cookies last night, and the cooler is already out. I just need to fill it up :)

Happy Friday!

Simply,
MJ

Have You Seen These?

When I picture "pre-portioned" plates, I usually picture those divided ones that keep your mashed potatoes and gravy from running into your macaroni or green beans. But there are lots of new dishes on the market to help people portion out their food. Am I just crazy for thinking that these things are kind of cool? These Slimware plates look like normal servingware, but the design helps you portion your meals properly. Makes me go, "Why didn't I think of that?!?"

{Image from website}

These Measure Up Bowls are another "so obvious I should have invented that." They help you measure out food (without getting your measuring cups dirty) and control portions on a daily basis. Perfect for counting calories, dieting or maintaining a healthy weight.

{Image from website}

I seriously wish I had the funds to buy some of these dishes! I think being conscious of exactly how much you are eating would be a good tool -- no excuses for overeating. Eventually you would be able to "eyeball" what a normal/recommended portion should be. No more daily binge eating (hello sorority house dinner buffet)!

So the moral of the story is -- I need to come up with an invention like these. And I'm a huge nerd for thinking these are cool. Thanks for reading.

(P.S. Both of these things I found from the blog Buttoned Up)

Easter Recap

So I was an abandoned child for Easter. My parents took off to Florida without me -- (okay, okay I was invited, but opted not to use up my vacation days to hang with my parents, aunt, uncle, and tween-age cousins) -- so I had nowhere to go! Lucky me, this young man offered to let me come home with him Saturday and Sunday :)

{He's a stud, isn't he? Haha}

His parents made us a delicious breakfast (scrambled eggs, sausage, toast) and dinner (ribs, grits and coleslaw). We went out with some of his high school friends, which was actually a lot of fun! We also spent a little time riding his 4-wheeler.

{Safety first!}

And we played with the pup! She seriously can be endlessly entertaining sometimes. Not to mention her frisbee chewing and ball deflating abilities, the boy discovered this fun new game.

{Yep, all you need is a hose!}

And the pup basically chases it and tries to catch all the water in her mouth.

{One of the many ears of little miss grace-less}

Not only entertaining, but seriously, how can you resist that face?

{The Gremlin herself...}

I got a little sun myself -- it makes me look forward to the sweet summertime so much!

I love spring :)

Hope you all had a blessed Easter!

Simply,
MJ